One Fine Day

Christmas at the Mayan Beach Garden

2011-12-26T09:00:00.000-08:00

More from the inn:

And, of course, if there's a golden retriever, I'll find her. Meet Sadie (and Jennifer from New York).

The Blondes

2011-12-24T13:14:00.001-08:00

Meet Johanna from Stockholm.

Why do we meet the best buddies while traveling?

Mayan Ruins

2011-12-23T08:53:00.000-08:00

Wednesday was "ruins day." I visited sites in Tulum and Coba and the latter was definitely the stand-out. I arrived as it opened and hired a Mayan guide who'd been working there for 12 years, so he really knew his stuff. Tulum, on the other hand, was very crowded and touristy. It reminded me of going to "see the redwoods" at Muir Woods.

Two photos from Coba - the huge pyramid is the only one in Mexico you're still allowed to climb.

Ides of March

2011-11-11T12:12:00.000-08:00

I don't go to the theater very often, but when I do, I'm reminded of how pleasant the experience can be.

This holds true even when the movie isn't "all that." Such was the case yesterday when I saw Ides of March. So predictable, it was almost boring. Well, it WAS boring - until the big plot secret is revealed - maybe 30 or 45 minutes into the movie.

That said, watching good actors and beautiful people - like George - is always pleasant.

This flick came with a decent recommendation from family and friends, so I'd love to hear what you think.

Ryoko's

2011-11-03T13:56:00.000-07:00

I love, love, love this neighborhood sushi place. Cute place, great ambiance, reasonably priced sushi.

Last night, I took Mike and Kristine there and introduced them to my favorite roll - the Volcano!

It's an unusual mix of shrimp, jalapeno, cucumber and ... peanut butter! Not as weird as it sounds. I promise.

Dong Baek

2011-11-02T11:43:00.000-07:00

A group of friends and I checked out Dong Baek, the Korean restaurant adjacent to my apartment building. I had hoped to replicate the awesome food I enjoyed in Seoul. While it definitely fell short of that goal, it was an interesting culinary experience.

The vegetarian bibimbap was definitely the highlight for me.

But I also really love the banchan or little dishes of pickled and spicy yummy things. I'll definitely be back - but maybe just for take-out as the service was lackluster.

Pumpkins!

2011-10-31T09:41:00.000-07:00

Sugar pie pumpkins are different than jack-o-lantern pumpkins. The former are used for cooking, while the latter are used for ... well ... jack-o-lanterns. I wondered whether pumpkin pie and other goodies would taste better with real pumpkin vs. canned.

I picked up two cuties at the farmer's market, then took them home, sliced them in half and cleaned them. (Yay! More seeds to roast!)

They only needed about 45 minutes in a 350-degree oven to become wonderfully soft and scoopable.

I pureed the pulp, then drained it and popped it in the freezer. Minimal hassle for what, hopefully, will be maximum taste.

Asian Pear Pie

2011-10-28T11:04:00.000-07:00

The Asian pears at the farmer's market were so affordable and so beautiful, I could not resist. Figuring out what to do with them was a bit tricky, though. I ended up using this recipe.

Eight pears peeled, cored and sliced. Thank goodness for my food processor.

My first-ever double crust pie - ready for the oven.

Ah, beautiful!

Fortune Cookie Chronicles

2011-10-26T06:48:00.000-07:00

Adventures in the World of Chinese Food.

Written by longtime New York Times reporter, Jennifer 8. Lee, this is a unique look at the impact of Chinese food in America and elsewhere. That's the quick synopsis, though. It's really much, much more than that. Read it.

Chaya

2011-10-24T09:47:00.000-07:00

Thanks to Louise for introducing me to Chaya. It's a lovely spot on the Embarcadero that's a bit off the beaten path, so not too crowded.

We shared a yummy ahi on a rice cake appetizer.

Outside in the Rain

2011-10-18T15:43:00.000-07:00

Listen to Brian's new song and enjoy some lovely Wisconsin scenery in his video.

Slow-Roasted Tomatoes

2011-10-17T09:21:00.000-07:00

I think the Early Girl bounty is just about finished, so Louise and I hit the farmer's market yesterday to load up. She made a savory jam, while I decided to slow-roast mine.

Here they are drizzled with olive oil, basil, oregano, thyme, salt and pepper and ready to go in the oven - at 200 degrees for 10 hours! Yes, 10 hours! Needless to say, I forgot to take a photo when I popped those babies out at 11 p.m. and stuck them in the freezer. They looked (and smelled!) delicious.

Bar Adagio

2011-10-14T08:21:00.000-07:00

Pay no attention to the meat. The pizza - topped with kale, pistachios and apples! - was superb!

Even though it's technically a hotel bar, Bar Adagio enjoys a mix of locals and tourists. The bartenders are great and the Brewers won! What more could a girl want?

Summer Bounty

2011-10-13T10:00:00.000-07:00

I know I keep saying I don't like tomatoes, then I keep eating them. Something about summer farmer's market tomatoes are so very yummy. Last night, I mixed together Early Girls, cucumbers, dill and feta and added some couscous for a quick and summery supper.

The Book Thief

2011-10-12T07:05:00.000-07:00

This book by Australian Markus Zusak has ascended to my Top Five Ever list.

While it was not universally loved in my book group, it certainly was roundly respected. Highly recommended.

Chickpea Cauliflower Curry

2011-10-11T10:43:00.000-07:00

I love putting a few ingredients I have at home into the computer to see what kind of recipes pop up. Last night, I made this healthy chickpea cauliflower curry.

I left out the carrot (didn't have any) and the cloves (don't like them) and I increased the curry powder and added a bit of cardamom and garam masala. I couldn't believe how easy it was and how I didn't need any oil. Unlike most Indian dishes, it was very waistline friendly.

Corn Chowder

2011-10-10T09:51:00.000-07:00

Soup and Packer games just seem to go together.

Yesterday, I was intend on crafting a menu around the farmer's market, not the other way around. A few friends came over to watch the game and we enjoyed this incredible corn chowder with cobs fresh from the market. (For the record, I used two peppers, not one.) I also made a couscous with fresh cucumbers and Early Girl tomatoes. Delicious!

Heirloom Tomatoes

2011-09-14T11:14:00.000-07:00

Sunday's farmer's market was a feast for the senses! Tomatoes, corn, stone fruit - in California, they're all hitting their peak.

Now, I'm not a tomato fan, but sometimes ... just sometimes ... a good tomato can send me over the moon. The heirlooms are here and at $1.75 a pound, they're certainly not a bargain, but they make up for it in deliciousness.

Quinn's Lighthouse

2011-09-13T09:58:00.000-07:00

Georgia, Janie, Beth and I ventured out to Alameda - yes, Alameda - and enjoyed Sunday lunch at a great waterfront bar and grill-type place.

The food, the company and the ambiance were delightful.

Gracias Madre

2011-08-31T09:04:00.000-07:00

Gracias Madre is a vegan Mexican restaurant in the Mission. Yes, vegan Mexican. To me, that means heaven.

I had wonderful enchiladas with mole sauce and cashew "cheese" and a side of greens.

Louise ordered the tamale. Both were scrumptious!

Wilma

2011-08-30T08:34:00.000-07:00

It's great watching this lucky lady let her personality come out. The progress she's made in just four days in SF has been amazine! She attracts a ton of attention on the streets. I think we need to go to Fort Funston this weekend.

Giant Run!

2011-08-29T10:14:00.000-07:00

Margaret ran a half-marathon on Saturday and it was my job to meet her at the finish line. While I didn't quite get there on time (Margaret was a speed demon!), we did enjoy hanging out in the VIP section (pictured) and later, across the street at Momo's.

John Legend and Sade

2011-08-26T09:28:00.000-07:00

I met Michelle after work yesterday for drinks and planned to take the train home. When our restaurant suddenly filled with people, we wondered what was going on. Turns out John Legend and Sade were playing right across the street. I ran over, bought a $50 ticket and enjoyed an unexpected night of great music!

My view of Sade strutting her stuff. She changed clothes four times and looked beautiful as ever.

The very sexy John Legend also was a fantastic showman.

Jasper's

2011-08-25T09:03:00.001-07:00

Last night, Beth and I checked out Jasper's, the new gastropub in the old space occupied by Ponzu. What an improvement!

In addition to a cute bartender from Wauwatosa, the place now offers a better menu, tastier food and a more pleasant ambiance. The crudo - thin strips of fish marinated ceviche-style - was superb. My only complaint is the dim lighting, which made the menu nearly impossible to read. (I'm sure the problem isn't my aging eyes.)

Muttville

2011-08-23T08:57:00.001-07:00

Muttville is an organization that specializes in older dogs. They rescue them from shelters, clean them up a bit, then find new homes for them.

I've decided to foster this guy. He was seized from his owner who left him in the backyard for more than a year with no food or water. He survived because of the kindness of a neighbor who fed him through the fence. Stay tuned for more details.

Golfing with Shaelin

2011-08-19T12:38:00.000-07:00

My nephew is 7 and, boy, do they grow fast when you only see them once or twice a year!

Grandpa and Grandma gave him golfing lessons this summer.

Look at that form!

You can't call it a golf outing unless you finish it off with lunch.

Miller Park

2011-08-18T07:59:00.000-07:00

Brian, Mike, Kristine and I went to see the Brewers win - again! - on Tuesday night. If you're following baseball at all this season, you'll know that Milwaukee can do no wrong. World Series? In my hometown? Time will tell.

V Bar

2011-08-11T08:52:00.000-07:00

San Jose, hip? Who knew? Last night, my colleagues and I met at V Bar on Santana Row for happy hour.

First off, Santana Row is an outdoor promenade and shopping area. I thought it had a really quaint, European feel.

Then, V Bar is a rooftop bar with lovely views and stunning decor. Every place in San Jose has outdoor seating because the weather is always so lovely - certainly a nice break from cold and foggy SF.

HSBG (to those in the know)

2011-08-10T10:55:00.000-07:00

From Elbow to Emmylou. And Ryan Bingham to Fitz and the Tantrums. I'm already excited about the 11th Annual Hardly Strictly Bluegrass Festival. Usually, I hate big outdoor concerts, but I've attended every one (except two) of these extravaganzas and they keep getting better and better.

Ranch Dog #2

2011-08-09T08:32:00.000-07:00

This is a photo of Lulu, courtesy of her owner. If this photo doesn't make you smile, nothing will.

Oakdale Ranch

2011-08-08T09:52:00.001-07:00

Cutest rental car ever - the Fiat! Although I thought the paint job clashed with my hair :)

The cabin, on the left, and the saloon with fire pit in front. It's been quite a while since I've seen so many stars.

Me, in my element - the sun, with the cabin in the background.

Pono, one of my buddies for the weekend. Buddy #2, Lulu, never slowed down enough to get a good shot.

Paso Robles

2011-08-05T08:51:00.000-07:00

I'm going away for the weekend to Paso Robles. I've rented a house, which, hopefully, is as cute in real life as it is in the photos.

The Twilight Singers

2011-08-04T11:01:00.000-07:00

Every now and then, I hear about a band that simply knocks my socks off. The Twilight Singers is one of them. Check them out here.

Lunch at Home

2011-08-03T10:19:00.001-07:00

Working at home twice a week affords me the opportunity to make a wonderful lunch for myself.

Yesterday, I grilled onions and a veggie burger, sliced Early Girl tomatoes purchased Sunday at the farmer's market, added a homemade pickle and some left-over cauliflower salad and I had a feast! All for five WW points! (For the non-Weight Watchers among you, I get 29 points for the whole day.)

Fruit on the Grill

2011-08-01T07:06:00.000-07:00

Right now, the farmer's markets are full of gorgeous stone fruit and berries. I couldn't resist getting a bag of nectarines for $1 pound. I had heard stone fruit did well on the grill and I persuaded Beth to try it. The peaches carmelized and produced a lovely syrup after about 15 minutes over the coals. She tossed in some blackberries and served it all with vanilla ice cream. Yum.

Brewers vs. Giants

2011-07-29T08:49:00.000-07:00

I wanted to share a photo from our awesome seats at last Sunday's baseball game. Thanks, Ben Seto aka Single Guy Chef for the photo and the company!

Le Colonial

2011-07-28T09:25:00.000-07:00

This French-Vietnamese restaurant is one of my favorite spots downtown. Yes, it's a bit pricey, but the food is tasty, the drinks are delightful and the ambiance cannot be beat.

Last night, I had the veggie spring rolls, which were to-die-for and the crab cakes, which were not. They had too much breading and not enough crab.

Simple Shrimp Salad

2011-07-26T08:08:00.000-07:00

Frozen shrimp is a dream if you're trying to lose weight. I always have some on hand. Last night (and many other nights), I saute the shrimp in some wonderful hot sauce I bought in the Virgin Islands, toss them atop a bed of Romaine lettuce and top it all off with yogurt-bleu cheese dressing. Good and good for you!

Asparagus with Poached Eggs

2011-07-25T07:00:00.000-07:00

So simple and good! You don't even need a recipe.

Giants vs. Brewers

2011-07-22T08:37:00.000-07:00

Or Brewers vs. Giants?

Yes, I'll be rooting for Milwaukee first, SF second. But, regardless of who wins, AT&T Park is an awesome place to watch a game!

A Return to Yoga

2011-07-21T09:19:00.000-07:00

Longtime friends and blog followers may remember my yoga phase. It really changed my life. Then, my favorite instructors left, class times changed, I moved.

Last night, I went to my first class in about two years. My HOA sponsored a free class in my building and I was inspired. I had forgotten how good yoga makes me feel.

Marin Brewing Company

2011-07-20T10:26:00.000-07:00

Last night, we volunteers got kicked out of San Quentin early because of a water main break.

So, the 10 of us headed over to Larkspur and the lovely Marin Brewing Company. We sat on the giant patio and enjoyed the warm temps. Oh, and those french fries were to die for!

Turnip Challenge

2011-07-19T08:48:00.000-07:00

I bought a few turnips at the farmer's market on Sunday, but I really don't know what to do with them. All suggestions welcomed!

Mexican Shrimp Cobb Salad

2011-07-18T06:50:00.001-07:00

It's typical summer weather in SF - cold and fog. To escape temps in the 60s, I trekked out to Concord for a pool party. Yes, a pool party.

This salad seemed the perfect dish to bring. I bought the trifle dish to ensure it looked as gorgeous as it tasted. If you try this, be sure to make the tomatillo dressing that's a suggested accompaniment. It's excellent!

Stephen King

2011-07-14T10:10:00.000-07:00

I love Stephen King. There. I said it.

I know he's not considered a real "writer," but have you read him lately? He's not just about ghouls and gore. Take "Full Dark, No Stars." I hate short stories, but these are longish short stories and they're packed with great characters, taut storylines and suspenseful plots. And, yes, it's real "writing." Highly recommended.

Monterey Bay Aquarium

2011-07-13T07:02:00.000-07:00

My rental house came along with a free pass to the Monterey Bay Aquarium. Never one to pass up a deal, I stopped by before driving back to SF.

I checked out the new exhibit - The Open Sea, which featured gorgeously lit sea nettle displays.

My photos don't do it justice. $29.95 for adult admission is quite high. Was it worth it? If you're a fan of the sea? Absolutely.

Cottage in Carmel

2011-07-12T09:15:00.000-07:00

I got to stay at this lovely cottage in Carmel after the owner had a last-minute cancellation.

It was so relaxing, I didn't want to leave.

It's a great location, beautifully decorated and you feel like you're in the middle of nowhere even though you're not.

Big Sur

2011-07-11T08:18:00.000-07:00

Yesterday, I drove about 15 miles south of Carmel to the Bixby Bridge, which is synonymous with Big Sur.

Either I'd never been there or I had forgotten how gorgeous it is. Unfortunately, either is a distinct possibility.

It was clear and sunny, but blustery. I suspect the scenery is breathtaking in any season.

Weekend Getaway - Carmel

2011-07-08T08:57:00.000-07:00

I've been itching to get out of town lately. Of course, this requires more planning when one is car-free. Usually, I head north to the Russian River. This time - because of a last-minute deal I found on a rental house - I'm headed south to Carmel.

Stay tuned for photos!

Return to Spinning

2011-07-07T14:23:00.000-07:00

I'm on a quest to lose 10 pounds in 30 days. I know it's a lot, but I feel like I need a swift kick in the buttocks. Anyway, I've started taking a spinning class at lunchtime on Thursdays. I'd forgotten how much I love it! The music, the sweat, the cajoling by the instructor. Ah!

Brenda's French Soul Food Cafe

2011-07-06T09:12:00.000-07:00

Georgia and I met in the 'hood yesterday for lunch at Brenda's. I have a low tolerance for waiting at restaurants, but a 20-minute wait at Brenda's is worth it.

Georgia had the catfish po' boy with cole slaw and I had a Caesar salad topped with fried catfish. I wish I'd photographed the salad because it was beautiful and tasty. The menu says the fish is fried and I believe it, but the cornmeal coating is so very light and there's nothing greasy about it.

Oh, and I just learned that Brenda lives in my apartment building. How cool is that?

Outerlands

2011-07-05T08:50:00.000-07:00

Louise and I met for lunch in the outer Sunset at a place aptly named Outerlands. And if you are a bread person, like I am, it's definitely worth the trip.

The delicious bread is baked in-house and they specialize in scrumptious sandwiches -of course - to show it off.

Louise said her pastrami was a bit too greasy, but my egg sandwich was perfect. In fact, the only improvement on the lunch experience would've been to serve the sandwich with a steak knife, which would've made the inch-thick slice of bread easier to eat.

Jones

2011-06-30T09:17:00.001-07:00

I think I've found my new favorite neighborhood place. It's called Jones and it's simply gorgeous.

A restaurant, two bars and a gigantic, heated, outdoor patio - and it's all lovely. I haven't tried the food yet, but they boast a $5 happy hour, so I'll be there very soon.

Guadalupe River Parkway

2011-06-29T14:53:00.000-07:00

This awesome 11.5-mile trail is about a mile from my office in San Jose. It's been a really nice place to run at lunch - when the temperatures aren't in the 90s. Whew!

My Commute

2011-06-28T08:40:00.000-07:00

My new job is in San Jose, which is about 50 miles south of San Francisco. Three days a week, I walk a few blocks to catch the shuttle bus. Some days I work, some days I chat, but usually I read.

I'm already a big reader, so with nine extra hours a week devoted to my favorite pastime, I'm going to consume many more books than usual. Don't forget to check my running list to the right for the latest. For the first time, I've granted a novel two stars - which is a MUST read.

Gastro Gypsy

2011-06-27T09:23:00.000-07:00

They call it the Gastro Gypsy and it was one of the best sandwiches I've ever eaten! Goat cheese, olive tapenade and grilled carrots seasoned with Moroccan spices - yes, carrots - create a flavor explosion!

And Straw, in Hayes Valley, is decorated in a carnival theme and feels cute and cozy without being cloying.

A Perfect Summer Salad

2011-06-24T08:13:00.000-07:00

It's no secret I'm trying to lose weight. It's also no secret I love carbs - bread, pasta, potatoes. When I saw this recipe, which promised to be a worthy substitute for traditional potato salad, I was doubtful. I'm happy to say I was so very wrong.

I used light mayo and a horseradish-dijon mustard blend for an extra kick. It was delicious!

Me and Gardening

2011-06-23T06:29:00.000-07:00

I am not a gardener. To me, it means a sore back and dirty fingernails. It means picking weeds and getting rid of pests. For my friend, Beth, it's important to have a patch of dirt. She's planted lettuce, kale, tomatoes and all sorts of herbs in her yard.

Admittedly, when I stayed at her place, I enjoyed picking the greens and preparing them for dinner. Aren't they beautiful? And delicious.

Sonoma Sojourn

2011-06-20T09:29:00.000-07:00

After I had secured a new job, it was fun to hang out during the week with friends I don't get to see as often as I'd like.

One day, I joined Margaret on her work jaunt to Sonoma. We had lunch and visited Viansa, the gorgeous winery where she and BZ got married so long ago.

My Sabbatical

2011-06-17T11:40:00.000-07:00

Well, it wasn't really a sabbatical, but that sounds better than "my period of unemployment."

My faithful readers have likely noticed my absence in the blogosphere. I must admit to experiencing a bout of depression following my company's "financial restructuring" and the subsequent "elimination" of my position. I certainly didn't want to convey any negativity through the Interweb. Now, I'm back.

I'll tell stories about my new job(s), but, first, I wanted to share some of my cat-sitting experiences.

Meeps and Juju. Or is it Juju and Meeps?

Nick and Daisy.

Daisy, in all her glory.

Virgin America Virgin

2011-05-17T22:49:00.000-07:00

I had no idea Virgin America was so hip! My neighbor, Patti, flies for them and she hooked me up with an almost-free RT ticket to Orlando, so I really didn't care if I had to sit in the lavatory the whole way ... but ... wow!

The purple and pink "mood" lighting, the flight attendants dressed in black and my personal "entertainment system" with episodes of Law and Order - what more could a girl want?

My favorite feature, though, was the on-screen food and beverage ordering. No cumbersome and annoying carts going up and down the aisles. Instead, you place your order at your seat and it's delivered to you on a tray. Nice touch!

Blue Barn Gourmet

2011-05-16T09:50:00.001-07:00

In an attempt to escape the madness of Bay to Breakers, Louise and I headed over to the Marina for lunch yesterday. I was in the mood for a sandwich and Blue Barn Gourmet offered up the perfect solution - the Buddha.

My photo does not do it justice, but it was a delightful mix of hummus, cucumbers, red peppers and sprouts. Scrumptious!

Fowl Frugality

2011-05-09T14:18:00.000-07:00

I've never been a meat eater and I recently gave up chicken, but every now and then I get a craving for homemade chicken soup. I take this to mean my body needs protein, so I indulge. This time, instead of throwing away all the bones, skin and yucky parts, I tossed it together with carrot peels, celery heels and salt to make broth.

It was a teeny bit messy as I strained it twice, then poured it through cheesecloth. But now I've got several quarts in the freezer ready to go!

Vegetable Lasagna

2011-05-02T08:20:00.000-07:00

Intentionally avoiding a political post today, I'd like to recommend this magnificent lasagna recipe.

I basically cleaned out my fridge - broccoli, cauliflower, red and yellow peppers, mushrooms, onions, carrots, garlic, zucchini - roasted everything, then layered it with low-fat ricotta cheese, a bit of mozzarella and asiago. It was a big hit at book group.

Rob Lowe

2011-04-28T08:56:00.000-07:00

I was never a big Rob Lowe fan. He was a bit too pretty for my tastes, but, boy, has he aged well! I digress.

I reviewed his new autobiography for AP and found it fascinating! Read more about it here.

Greek Greens with Beets

2011-04-27T07:39:00.000-07:00

If you love to cook and don't yet subscribe to A Veggie Venture, I highly recommend you do.

Yesterday, I made this terrific beet salad. Before trying this recipe, I usually chopped the greens off the beets and tossed them in the compost bin. Egad! Now, I know better. Follow Alanna's instructions and you can't go wrong. Delicious and so healthy!

Healthy Pizza?

2011-04-26T11:09:00.000-07:00

I love pizza, but my waistline doesn't, so I'm always looking for ways to make it healthier.

Trader Joe's sells pizza dough in the refrigerated section. I spread out the whole wheat dough in a pizza pan, then load on the toppings. The obvious key to keeping it lighter is to go heavy on the veggies and light on the cheese.

Freight and Salvage

2011-04-14T07:44:00.000-07:00

I live in SF. I don't have a car. Hence, I don't often cross the Bay Bridge to go to the East Bay. I made an exception last night to check out the new Freight and Salvage. It moved a few years ago into a beautiful new space and it remains a great venue to see a show.

The band was called Elephant Revival - and while these talented multi-instrumentalists held a lot of promise, I left during intermission. With more time and experience, they could become pretty awesome.

Daffodils at TJs

2011-04-13T07:41:00.001-07:00

A good indicator of spring is when Trader Joe's sells cases upon cases of fresh daffodils for $1.29 a bunch. Over the weekend, I splurged on six bunches. I put some in the hallway of my apartment building and the rest in my living room. Makes me smile just looking at them - which is a very good thing.

iDVD

2011-04-12T10:29:00.000-07:00

It's so 2005. I know, but I'm excited about making my first DVD.

I created a pretty cool slide show of my photos from Bangladesh. After a bit of coaching from Mike, I was off and running. It was almost as exciting as creating my first mix CD way back when.

Oh, and if don't yet have a Mac, you should :)

Gussie's Chicken and Waffles

2011-04-11T08:15:00.000-07:00

Chicken and waffles? Uh, sure. I'll try anything. And, boy, am I glad I did! This place was awesome!

Being a fan of neither chicken nor waffles, I opted for the catfish sliders. My friend and I shared a quartet of sides - collard greens, black-eyed peas, corn and red beans and rice. We also split the fried cheese grits appetizer. Holy moly! This southern food took me back to South Carolina. But everything was cooked with turkey, rather than pork, so it all felt lighter, healthier and not at all greasy.

A few words about the service - slow, but friendly. Just like the South.

Asparagus Soup

2011-04-08T07:41:00.000-07:00

Now that I live in the heart of the city without a car, I shop for fruits and veggies at the farmer's market. This means I pay more attention to the seasons. Well, spring is here and that means ASPARAGUS! As a kid, I hated asparagus. In fact, I was on a date in Anchorage circa 1994 the first time I experienced the joys of asparagus.

Last night, I made asparagus soup. It was so simple and so good.

The recipe stressed the importance of serving it with a splash of balsamic vinegar, which really did bump it up a notch. Delish!

2223 Restaurant

2011-04-07T09:11:00.000-07:00

Beth and I found ourselves in the Castro last night - a somewhat unusual occurrence - and following a recommendation, we visited 2223 Restaurant.

The interior was gorgeous - perfect for what quickly became a cold and windy night - and the food looked and smelled terrific. We splurged on $12 glasses of wine and skipped the food, which was actually more moderately priced. We agreed to visit again closer to a payday.

2011-04-06T07:54:00.000-07:00

My ride for the 10-hour excursion.

We were accompanied here by an armed guard. We saw bengal tiger tracks, but no tigers, which was fine by me.

The monkeys were scavengers. They were ignored by everyone but me.

We visited one of the many villages that goes underwater during monsoon season.

Our intrepid boat driver and umbrella-holding friend. Yes, it was HOT!

Another Monkey

2011-04-05T11:05:00.000-07:00

When the sun sets, there's really no reason to stay at Zeitgeist - especially when their margarita prices went up to $8 - so the ladies and I went across the street to Another Monkey.

Admittedly, we were attracted to the happy hour specials and we weren't disappointed. Two glasses of wine and four tasty appetizers - $15!

Waterbar

2011-04-04T07:53:00.000-07:00

I've always wanted to visit Waterbar. Aptly named, it's right on the bay and it's a gorgeous, but pricey restaurant. When Michelle said she had "connections" there, I was ready to go!

We enjoyed a very tasty smoked sturgeon dip with yummy potato chips and an excellent $5 "happy hour" sauvignon blanc. When the server insisted there was no bill to pay, I was even happier. Thanks, Michelle!

Heat Wave

2011-04-01T09:34:00.000-07:00

It's been one of those weeks ...

Crystal-clear blue sky, sunshine, temperatures in the 70s. If you're visiting, you want to stay. If you're already here, you smilingly fork over a ridiculously high rent or mortgage payment.

And why the heck did it take nearly 13 years for me to have lunch in the beautiful Justin Herman Plaza?

La Mar Cebicheria Peruana

2011-03-31T08:43:00.000-07:00

Even though I've heard mixed reviews, I've been wanting to try La Mar for a while now.

With sunny skies and temperatures in the 70s, Louise and I decided last night was ideal to check out their bayside patio.

We split the cebiche clasico, which was halibut and the empanadas sampler - shrimp, chicken, beef and vegetarian. Despite it touting itself as a "Cebicheria Peruana," we agreed the cebiche was disappointing. The halibut was tough and Louise thought the sauce needed seasoning. The empanadas, however, were terrific and the views were unbeatable.

On the Boat in Bangladesh

2011-03-30T10:31:00.000-07:00

We headed south out of Dhaka on a 23-hour steamer trip. Some sights along the way:

Kids at the bow.

Fishermen. Shrimp is the country's top export.

We made about 10 stops along the way. Out in public, I saw about 100 men for every woman. Really.

Net fishing. People get paid 100 taka or a bit more than a dollar for 1,000 shrimp larvae. And, yes, they count them by hand.

Did I mention Bangladesh produces six different types of bananas?

Cutest baby ever!

More Dhaka

2011-03-29T07:58:00.000-07:00

Kids at the port.

Old Dhaka market.

The ubiquitous rickshaw. (Yes, I rode in one. Yes, it was scary.)

Shave and a haircut.

Steamer Trip in Bangladesh

2011-03-28T09:18:00.000-07:00

Three steamer ships are currently in operation in Bangladesh. They were built in India in the early 20s.

Until fairly recently, the paddle wheels were powered by a continually stoked wood fire. Now, they rely on diesel fuel.

I was lucky enough to get an air-conditioned berth in a first-class cabin.

There were several others "classes" of service, but most people paid very little for a spot on the floor.

It was a 23-hour trip from Dhaka to Morelgonj.

Departing Dhaka

2011-03-24T19:58:00.000-07:00

Sadarghat is the name of the boat terminal in Old Dhaka. It's absolutely crazy crowded. After a two-hour car ride through Dhaka, I had about 30 minutes to spare before the steamer left the station. Here are some sights:

With so many waterways, boats are used to transport everything from goods to people.

Shanties on the shore.

I didn't know there were so many different types of bananas. They're much sweeter than ours in the U.S.

Yes, they're smiling at me - the crazy tourist.

At the River in Dhaka

2011-03-20T01:55:00.000-07:00

Not Dhaka

2011-03-16T19:47:00.000-07:00

The meeting I'm attending is being held at the BRAC Centre for Development and Management. It's about 30 km outside of Dhaka. And, judging from the harrowing, 90-minute van ride from the airport, it's an oasis outside the capital city.

It specializes in sponsoring conferences and other international events.

The grounds are peaceful and well-kept and the accommodations are clean and comfortable - by Bangladeshi standards.

Unfortunately, the compound is surrounded by barbed wire and a guard mans the entrance gate 24/7.

We meet here, eat here and sleep here. I've been advised - repeatedly - not to leave the compound. And I won't.

Room With a View

2011-03-15T02:03:00.000-07:00

After 30 hours and too many time zones to count, I've arrived safely in Dhaka, Bangladesh. Not feeling the joy of travel right now, but I will say arriving at my humble abode feels like a respite from an utterly insane city. I'll save more first impressions until after I've had some much needed rest.

Puerto Alegre

2011-03-11T09:14:00.000-08:00

I returned last night to one of my favorite spots in the city - Puerto Alegre.

I even tried a different dish this time - a shrimp quesadilla. What a treat! Thank goodness Georgia and I split it. For great Mexican food and tasty margaritas, Puerto Alegre is highly recommended.

Volunteerism

2011-03-10T11:21:00.000-08:00

Why do some people pitch in and help - even when no money is involved - when others stand by and watch?

I don't know the subject of her thesis, but I recently participated in a graduate student's focus group of volunteers. It was a small group, but everyone there had volunteered in more than one capacity during their adults lives and nearly everyone had a parent or family member who volunteered. Perhaps it's genetic?

Old Ship Saloon

2011-03-09T09:33:00.000-08:00

The Old Ship Saloon is a great neighborhood place right across from my office.

They have wonderful food, speedy service and a pleasant ambiance. Try the ahi tacos or the homemade veggie burger.

Brenda's French Soul Food Cafe

2011-03-08T07:28:00.000-08:00

Fans of Brenda's French Soul Food Cafe will be thrilled to learn that the restaurant has expanded into the space next door. Instead of 6-8 tables, it now has about 20 and, thankfully, neither the quality of the food nor the service has suffered.

Molly and I shared the crawfish beignets, a shrimp and goat cheese omelet (which could have used a few more shrimp) and buttermilk biscuits.

The crawfish beignets dusted with a cayenne-paprika mixture are simply a delight.

Sugar Cafe

2011-03-07T12:08:00.000-08:00

I really wanted to like this place. It's a great space with comfy couches, a lovely bar and a nice fireplace.

I had visited for lunch, but I wanted to try Sugar Cafe their alleged "happy hour." What a disappointment! Overpriced, bad service, underwhelming. When I pay too much money for food I could've prepared better myself, I am not a happy camper.

I suggest they choose an identity - lounge, coffee shop, bar, cafe - then try to do that well.

Polish Dill Pickle Soup

2011-03-04T07:35:00.001-08:00

I'm Polish. Both sides of my family are Polish. I speak some Polish. Heck, I've even visited the homeland. And I never heard of Polish Dill Pickle Soup. But a soup recipe that combines a few of my favorite things - pickles and potatoes - has got to be good, right?

A Veggie Venture scored another touchdown with this recipe. I made it last night and it was terrific! Note: you really need a food processor or blender to make this soup. I also made use of my new immersion blender to get it to just the right consistency. I also used Claussen dill pickles, which are super-garlicy. If you don't like pickles, don't despair. The soup ends up with a mild potato-dill rather than "pickly" flavor.

At the Beach in Bangladesh

2011-03-03T09:50:00.000-08:00

Yes, this is how people dress for the beach in Bangladesh - a very conservative Muslim country. I guess I'll be investing in a few traditional Bangladeshi ensembles known as shalwar kameez.

Gott's Roadside

2011-03-02T08:08:00.000-08:00

I met a few friends yesterday for lunch at Gott's Roadside at the Ferry Building. We sat outside in the sun and caught up on gossip.

We also enjoyed some yummy, but expensive, fish tacos. Delish!

Dhaka, Bangladesh

2011-03-01T09:00:00.000-08:00

In less than two weeks, I'm headed to the capital of Bangladesh for work. After my job is finished, I'm taking a week off to explore the country.

Have you been to that part of the world? If so, any and all advice welcomed!

Oscar Review

2011-02-28T11:25:00.000-08:00

Overall, I thought the Oscars were pretty boring. I was particularly disappointed by co-hosts James Franco and Anne Hathaway. Or more accurately, I was disappointed the writers didn't make use of their talents. James was dull, dull, dull and Anne was trying too hard to compensate.

That said, here are some other thoughts:

Best dressed: Gwyneth Paltrow. The dress, the hair, the makeup, the jewelry. Gwyneth was born to be a movie star.

Most deserved and runner-up to best dressed: Natalie Portman looks great pregnant and the dress was gorgeous! Plus, she rocked my world in "Black Swan."

Best guy: I know I'll take flack for this, but I adore Mark Ruffalo. I'm thrilled to see him getting the credit he deserves. And, boy, is he handsome or what? Plus, he's from Wisconsin!

Best moment: Florence Welch and A.R. Rachman performing the nominated song "If I Rise" was pure magic. Her voice even silenced the party I was attending - not an easy task.

Marines' Memorial Club

2011-02-25T07:44:00.000-08:00

I'm about to share what I believe is one of SF's best kept secrets. Ssshh! The Marines' Memorial Club is a hotel and restaurant just a few blocks from Union Square. You have to be a member (and an active duty or military veteran) to join, but anyone can visit the awesome 12th floor lounge.

Yes, it's called the Leatherneck Steakhouse, but if you can get past that, you can enjoy the great view and a cocktail or two.

Moth Infestation

2011-02-24T07:55:00.000-08:00

Have you ever laundered every single item in your closet - in one day? That's what I did on Monday after letting a moth infestation get out of control.

The little buggers are the size of a large mosquito and when they're in the larval stage, they can wreak havoc. They ate holes in about 10 sweaters - five of them cashmere, one of them lowly cotton - and a wool scarf.

I emptied my closet, did eight loads of laundry (two in gentle cycle), took nine sweaters to the dry cleaners (they're giving me a bulk discount) and filled my cedar chest with other clothes and a "Moth Away" chemical bomb that looks (and smells!) like a urinal cake. I also bought new plastic storage drawers and zip bags for sweaters and dresses. And the exterminator is stopping by tomorrow.

Oh, but doesn't my closet look nice?

Kingdom of Dumpling

2011-02-22T10:00:00.000-08:00

I'd been wanting to feast on Chinese dumplings for a while, so I trekked out to the outer Sunset with the Single Guy Chef to experience what we had heard were some of the city's best at Kingdom of Dumpling.

I was concerned about a non-meat eater like me having enough options. Well, I needn't have worried. We enjoyed a delicious chive pancake, shrimp dumplings, garlic string beans and Shanghai soup dumplings, which only came stuffed with pork.

Everything was fast, fabulous and affordable. And it was a perfect brunch for a cold, rainy day.

Cha Cha Cha

2011-02-18T08:37:00.000-08:00

Oh, Cha Cha Cha, how I love thee! Your sauteed mushrooms, your Cajun shrimp, your crusty bread. You are not the dieter's friend.

My friends, Karen and Georgia, who somehow retain the metabolism of a gnat, ask what's that yummy sauce with the shrimp? Heavy cream, I say, glancing over at Vicki and rolling my eyes. Sigh.

Grandview at the Hyatt

2011-02-17T08:03:00.000-08:00

Always on the lookout for new, cool after-work spots for drinks, Beth and I checked out Grandview at the Hyatt yesterday.

The views were - as promised - grand. Everything else? Not so much. For the first time in our collective history, Beth and I sent back a bottle of wine because it was, well, nasty. The splurge - an artichoke and crab hot appetizer - was not at all impressive. All in all, we decided it was just a standard hotel bar that boasted a killer view of a gorgeous city.